“Am I Cursed? Every time I Meet My Cousin We Always End Up Having S.ex” – Nigerian Girl

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A girl is in need of urgent help to stop a very bad habit. According to Yoanswers, the girl has been sleeping with her cousin for a long time now and can’t seem to stop.

Somebody please help me. I am really close with my big cousin and we have always had a connection. I am 15 and he is 17 and we have quite a big family so there is quite a lot of family get-togethers.

Since I was 15 he has been looking me up and down and feeling my bum when we hug and sliding his hand up my leg and I kinda liked it. He even did under the dinner table and I got really horny and some of my family suspected something and I often got quite awkward. So I decided it had to stop, so after dinner one night I took him up to my room so we could talk in private and I was about to ask him to stop doing it when he got the wrong idea why I’d taken him to my room so he started kissing me and rubbing my area and he slipped his hand down my trousers and started poking me.

I couldn’t bring myself to ask him to stop so after that he took his trousers down and asked for me to give him oral s*x, so I did and he put me on the bed and got on top of me and took my skirt up and my underwear down and had s*x with me.

It started to become a frequent thing every time we got together, but after a while our family started to suspect something and kept us apart, put us at separate ends of the table etc. but we always managed to get together again and have s*x. Now, it happened at birthdays and at weddings.

I knew it was wrong and I want it to stop but when I’m there I just can’t bring myself to ask him not to.

So, it keeps happening and I feel like I have no control over it. I have gone on the pill since this started because I always know its going to happen. But, I need it to stop. How do I stop it because I can’t? Please, help me.

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  • Reply Adegbenro Peter August 20, 2016 at 9:54 pm

    You can get off dis stupid,naive nd wayward attitude by prayin 2 God 2 take control of ur life,nd if dis can b done,u wil av 2 avoid him 4 a period of some tym nd control urself dis i think it wil b done sucesfuly.

  • Reply Adegbenro Peter August 20, 2016 at 9:54 pm

    You can get off dis stupid,naive nd wayward attitude by prayin 2 God 2 take control of ur life,nd if dis can b done,u wil av 2 avoid him 4 a period of some tym nd control urself especially.By dis i think it wil b done sucesfuly…

  • Reply kabiyesi August 21, 2016 at 6:38 am

    Put it in prayer and start avoiding him for now! God’ll help you

  • Reply agoro August 27, 2016 at 11:05 pm

    Dis is not d matter of prayer.prayer works for spirtual matter not phyical things book of jeremiah says if u turn ursef to me den I God we turn to u. 2kro 7vs 14 says if my pple dah call by my name callon me d issue is if] so it wen Force urself to say no to him just make attempt forcing and shout no no no. And c wot will hpn.not a cursed o it’s u want it in dy way

  • Reply Peterrock choplife September 6, 2016 at 9:24 am

    Young lady u are under a spell so u need prayer of deliverance then u need 2 act fast b4 your life got ruin totally

  • Reply Favour Asinya September 6, 2016 at 3:46 pm

    pray about it and and never come close to him again, bicus if you refuse to do something spiritual and physically about it, one day those peels will fail you, and the result will be pregnancy,you know is a very big disgrace if thats happen, a stitch in time saves nine

  • Reply Michael September 7, 2016 at 5:54 am

    Confess to your parents let them fully aware of what your are passing through, both of you are still teenagers, they have control over you, and they can take a drastical action.

    • Reply Olatunde September 29, 2016 at 5:45 am

      Dis is nt accrptable,is better u dont tell any of ur parent at all cos is goin tp turn to a big shame on u guys in d nearest future,

  • Reply prince September 28, 2016 at 1:25 pm

    u need deliverance

  • Reply Olatunde September 29, 2016 at 5:47 am

    Dis is nt accrptable,is better u dont tell any of ur parent at all cos is goin tp turn to a big shame on u guys in d nearest future,

    • Reply Tk October 17, 2016 at 3:48 am

      The best solution is to open up to someone civil in the family….to invite both of you and adress your plight….once he is aware someone knows about it in the family to keep an eye on him… on the way…secondly invite ur boyfriend if you hv one afterall you r not a virgin to every family event.

  • Reply tunde October 16, 2016 at 12:59 pm

    waoooo gentle lady u wud hav not start wat u wont finished but my advice for you is to put it in prayer nd wit fasting i think GOD WIL do wonderful things since u hav tired of it may GOD help u.xory dear be prayerfull

  • Reply Tonwe Roland October 17, 2016 at 11:50 am

    Decisions are had to take, you have to decide whether to quit or not and if u want to quit you must face that stupid boy seriously with anger and query , treating him that you will report if he refuses to stop

  • Reply Larry December 14, 2016 at 11:26 am

    What Will Stop You Is What Will End Your Life. Quit Girl,

  • Reply sophia December 14, 2016 at 12:01 pm

    first pray to God than tell your parents about it. And never go close to that boy. Whenever he wants to come close run. the best step to take is to tell your parents cause they won’t sit down and let your life be ruin and always pray and put what you pray for into action. cause pray without work is useless

  • Reply Adesanya Bukola December 14, 2016 at 12:46 pm

    U just av to tell ur parent bcs u r still young n u r ruing ur life gradually.IJAFARA LEWU

  • Reply Deejar December 14, 2016 at 1:22 pm

    Be determined ,
    Also, put it in prayer…
    God help you

  • Reply Johnson O.I December 14, 2016 at 8:06 pm

    Pray and get your admission so that you can stay far from him…

  • Reply Honorable December 14, 2016 at 8:48 pm

    Please run for you dear life it kills and destroy future

  • Reply Bassey William December 15, 2016 at 6:11 pm

    You just have to be bold enough to tell your mother, she will be the one to help you

  • Reply lola December 21, 2016 at 12:24 pm

    Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour, confess your sin. Ask Him to help you. You can also tell your parents they are in the best position to help and counsel you.

  • Reply Edwards Logossou December 21, 2016 at 1:50 pm

    Here, you need to be frank to yourself. You have to look into your future and begin making some real decisions that will save your future ship from sinking into the great ocean of irresponsibility and chaotic deterioration. First of all, you must forgive yourself. Your spirit needs a release, and that release cannot come, if you don’t forgive yourself. Self forgiveness is the starting point of the change in your life. You don’t just accept the fact that what you were doing was only wrong in its literal way but you must agree with your instinct that things have gone bad within you since you started this. And secondly, you will need a sincere talk with your mum or dad. Go to one of them first, and tell him or her your overwhelming dangers that are overtaking you already. Actually, this leads to spiritual possession that will not affect you only, even your generation. Try to be frank with everybody and separate yourself with the source of this happening. Turn your heart to Jesus and accept Him as your personal Lord and Saviour. You will be delivered from this hunting danger.

  • Reply precious December 21, 2016 at 5:11 pm

    pls you just have to let ur parents know about it now before it we be too late, believe me ur parents we really do something about it and dat we be the end of ur problems. and pls stay away from that guy is a bad person.

  • Reply joel Micah December 21, 2016 at 8:44 pm

    All u need is Jesus to deliver u if u are truly tired of or situation why not receive Jesus as lord which is d first step. Then go for deliverance reply dis message if u are truly ready to receive Christ.

  • Reply Nellys victor February 4, 2017 at 5:45 am

    Pray to God for deliverance because he says in his words that let’s cast our anxiety or burdens to him because he cares,call upon him in times of trouble that he wil answer you so my dear just call upon him now and cast your anxiety to him and he will delivery you from such things ..and please don’t ever tell your boyfriend this issues because one day he will use it against you as human being we are

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